Friends and Social Life Would You Rather questions
Questions that make friends argue about loyalty, honesty, plans and what the group really says after someone leaves.
What makes these choices difficult?
belonging, honesty and social confidence. This set is designed for everyone, with a hard difficulty level. No option is presented as the correct answer.
- Would you rather know whenever a friend is annoyed but hear the truth without it being softened, whenever one friend is missing or have five friends who protect your feelings but feel completely confident around them, whenever one friend is missing?
- Would you rather know exactly what friends say after you leave but apologise first after every disagreement, with no chance to call it a joke or forget every broken promise immediately but feel completely confident around them, with no chance to call it a joke?
- Would you rather be invited to every social event but organise every group plan yourself, whenever the whole group is together or let someone else choose every group plan but let someone else organise every plan, whenever the whole group is together?
- Would you rather remember every promise your friends made but never leave a gathering first, until the next argument or attend only half the social events but let someone else organise every plan, until the next argument?
- Would you rather always choose the group's plans but let friends remember your mistakes too, for your next group plan or never notice when a friend is annoyed but let someone else organise every plan, for your next group plan?
- Would you rather have one friend who never lies to you but give them the same access to your thoughts, while your closest friend is watching or never know whether friends genuinely like you but keep your own opinion private, while your closest friend is watching?
- Would you rather win every argument with friends but share your own opinion just as honestly, starting with the next invitation or keep every first impression private but keep your own opinion private, starting with the next invitation?
- Would you rather hear every honest first impression but never ask anyone to explain, whenever one friend is missing or have five friends who protect your feelings but keep your own opinion private, whenever one friend is missing?
- Would you rather know whenever a friend is annoyed but apologise first after every disagreement, with no chance to call it a joke or forget every broken promise immediately but keep your own opinion private, with no chance to call it a joke?
- Would you rather know exactly what friends say after you leave but share your own opinion just as honestly, whenever the whole group is together or let someone else choose every group plan but choose your social limits a year early, whenever the whole group is together?
- Would you rather be invited to every social event but hear the truth without it being softened, until the next argument or attend only half the social events but choose your social limits a year early, until the next argument?
- Would you rather remember every promise your friends made but let friends remember your mistakes too, for your next group plan or never notice when a friend is annoyed but choose your social limits a year early, for your next group plan?
- Would you rather always choose the group's plans but organise every group plan yourself, while your closest friend is watching or never know whether friends genuinely like you but never learn the complete truth, while your closest friend is watching?
- Would you rather have one friend who never lies to you but never leave a gathering first, starting with the next invitation or keep every first impression private but never learn the complete truth, starting with the next invitation?
- Would you rather win every argument with friends but never ask anyone to explain, whenever one friend is missing or have five friends who protect your feelings but never learn the complete truth, whenever one friend is missing?
- Would you rather hear every honest first impression but give them the same access to your thoughts, until your next birthday or lose every argument with friends but never learn the complete truth, until your next birthday?
- Would you rather know whenever a friend is annoyed but share your own opinion just as honestly, whenever the whole group is together or let someone else choose every group plan but know everyone moves on by tomorrow, whenever the whole group is together?
- Would you rather know exactly what friends say after you leave but never ask anyone to explain, until the next argument or attend only half the social events but know everyone moves on by tomorrow, until the next argument?
- Would you rather be invited to every social event but apologise first after every disagreement, for your next group plan or never notice when a friend is annoyed but know everyone moves on by tomorrow, for your next group plan?
- Would you rather remember every promise your friends made but organise every group plan yourself, while your closest friend is watching or never know whether friends genuinely like you but repeat one social mistake each year, while your closest friend is watching?
- Would you rather always choose the group's plans but hear the truth without it being softened, starting with the next invitation or keep every first impression private but repeat one social mistake each year, starting with the next invitation?
- Would you rather have one friend who never lies to you but let friends remember your mistakes too, whenever one friend is missing or have five friends who protect your feelings but repeat one social mistake each year, whenever one friend is missing?
- Would you rather win every argument with friends but give them the same access to your thoughts, until your next birthday or lose every argument with friends but repeat one social mistake each year, until your next birthday?
- Would you rather hear every honest first impression but never leave a gathering first, during every group chat or let someone else choose every group plan but nobody remains upset afterwards, during every group chat?
How to use this list
Choose an option before reading anybody else's answer. After the reveal, compare the reasoning behind each side rather than treating the majority as correct. Live totals on eligible question pages are first-party WYR HQ votes.